If a Pig Can Live as a Pig, Why Can't We as Human?

It's undeniable if some opinions from others can sometimes make someone be pessimistic about one's self. Not only becoming pessimistic, but also affecting the next step by being reluctant to take action.
It is a common problem for human.
The morality, the culture, the norms, even the laws per se encourage individuals to think twice before do something. Id, Ego, Superego, that earlier have been cited by Freud in elaborating human behaviour, can be also the answer why those things can affect one's deed.
That is how psychology and sociology see the problem.
In criminology, also known as differential association that postulates if an action is truly emerged from interactions with others. There is a learning process.

But then, can society control the conformity and the order?
Should I act like you?
Should you act like me?
Or else, should we act the same?

If you do something, it's socially normal to have some feedback like compliment or insult, agreement or disagreement. Positive reaction or negative reaction.
But hey, you know what is the best for you. You have lived your own life, so let the decision comes from you. Any perception and opinion will only add harmony to your life. Let them be what they should be.
Everyone has right to give an opinion, but then, don't let anyone's opinion take effect on your side.
We cannot change how the world see us, but we can change how we see the world.
It is on your hand. Your life is always in your hand.

Word in Extinction

The new commodity in scarcity is Thank You(s). Perhaps people are starting to be "I save my ass first. Damn about the others".

It's a common knowledge about 3 magic words, "Thanks", "Sorry", and "Please".
The word "thanks" represents the need of other people existence and the need to justify one's existence. The mutuality in humanity. The philosophical proof that no one can live alone. It's perceptible that there is one who feels alive in helping other, and the other one who feels not being alone by receiving an aid.
Thanks. Grazie. Xie Xie. Gamsha Hamnida. Arigato. Ngiyabonga. Toda.
Every tribe, every country, they have the word to mention the gratitude.

I don't really want to overshare here, tho my writing was almost based on what is fazing me.
I have recently felt and thought that some people asked me my helps. I could help them. I'd like too. I have done it. When I couldn't help them fully, then I'd do it as great as I could. Then, yeah, cliche..
They just went away!
I understand about sincerity, but the word exists not to eradicate the word "appreciation".
Perhaps it's just my turn to be on this phase, like a mountain and the sea. Having given the useful things, just to receive the trashes in return. Is it how they should be treated? Is it how I should be treated?

I am not saying I have a greater mind than the others. It's just absurd to have shared about my ideas, then others claim them as theirs by not asking permission or just say thanks!
In academic scope, the popular term is plagiarism.

Is it my fault for not to be the first one who implemented, published, and add the signature what was mine?
Or
Is it MERELY a dirty action of the hunger for self-popularizing?
Or
Is it just me who can't understand how to be thankful for what people have left on me?

To Love, All We Need Is Solely a Heart

Is there any rule in loving each other?
Is there any human law can stop the feeling?
Who can feel, who can love
Loving is not a crime.

Two Types of Stereotypes

There are two types of people.
The ones who do the best and the others who prepare for the worst.
There are two types of people.
They who are trying to find why they live and they who are looking for how to live in this world.
There are two types of stupid women.
The one who takes in vain a good man and she who lets herself fooled away by a bad man.

It's Just The Same

It’s funny when there are some people who show things off to hide themselves, when the others don’t realize that they’re showing off their true selves.

It’s even funnier when finding out a friend of mine so overwhelmingly accepted my opinion about her positive appearance, but once very offensively denied my opinion that she perceived as negative. Beyond all that overwhelming and offensive response, they’re just my opinions and what so bothering about that?

I still see it as humorous behaviour of humanity that some people taking ‘compliments’ from others as “yes, it’s me. thank you for telling me that gorgeous side of me”, but when receiving non-complimentary remarks they act like “you know nothing about me. stop judging me!”.

For me who’s wandering beyond positive and negative terms, there’s no difference response I should pay between the compliment and the insult some people may note to me, but “Are you sure about it?thanks (for trying to get to know me)”. There’s no need to be happy when people say how dolly cute you are, because you know, even sometimes you doubt it in front of the mirror. In the other hand, there’s no need to feel upset too, when people say to you how foolish you are, because you know that at another times, you’ve avoided to do foolish deeds (like they do).

After that, what remains is opinion can never be as precise as everything you know about what you’ve been through in your whole life. Opinion is not a fact. Just like what’s seen is not necessarily like what is seen, but there’s always another thing behind what’s seen.

Speaking of what’s seen and what’s not seen, it’s natural for human being to choose what to be seen in which scene. We cannot act always like what we want with social and psychological consequences we’re born into. In another time, we have lost what we’re born with. We don’t know who we are. All we know is just what we’re supposed to be. Then please don't blame the nature of social creature. It comes with the reverse quality: Some people’s opinions can help us exactly to find what we have lost of ourselves. They can tell us things what we can’t see. Maybe the things we don't realize we’ve been showing them off or simply the things we forgot we ever did; the lost puzzle of our true selves.

People have curiosity. They gain the facts by giving a compliment or an insult just to know whether you know about it (what they see) or not, or simply because they want to know about it more by throwing their opinion to you and hoping for your complete story.

Well, all above those things, again, an opinion is not a quality to be assessed as right or wrong, yes or no. The truth about you, is always you who know and understand completely. No matter what opinion people have about you, the truth will never be the less or more.

Sovereignty for Sexuality : The Re-declaration of Virginity

The importance of women virginity is nothing without the consistency in respecting women virginity per se.

For the society wherever you are, if you people are highly prevailing virginity in women as their pride, you should note that it means there will be no man who consummates the virginity illegally.

Can you convince that?

If you can’t , then, the thing you’re prevailing is clearly not for women’s pride nor for the sake of both sides, but merely for the pleasure and the stupidity of men talking about their malformed little friend.

You (especially for a man) blame and become disappointed of a woman you’re (admittedly) loving having lost her virginity. Well, are you the one who never makes a woman lose hers? Haven’t you had sex with a virgin donna?

If you have done such thing, then what’s the blame for? You don’t even respect the virginity. Confess that. There’s no proper freedom is deserved by someone who deprived freedom from another one, in any reason.

You’ve been treating women as the objects of your penis. Reducing the whole one into some pleasurable pieces. Just that.

If you never do such thing, then is the bleeding liquid coming out of her vagina is the most importance of your relationship?

Is that what makes you think you love her?

Is that what supports you to struggle for her?

Is it far much more important than what she’s done to you, to give in herself for you, to be bearing your child, to care for you, to understand you, to give her affection for you, to stay beside you whatever you’re going through, to share her independence with you, and to be the one who you come to when you're feeling down?

Is that red spotting you wish to see is the reason why you marry a woman?

When you devote to love her, love her fully as she is and do it as your-truly-self or never to love her at all. There's no half-love nor quarter love. It's zero meaning when you say you want to give someone a car but eventually you just give the trunk.

Place This in This Place

What we can't see is not meant to be seen. What we can't tell is not meant to be told. So never tell me what you can't even see. Nevertheless, we all can feel things. So teach and preach me how to feel what you feel.