Dear God.

I don't ask for your mercy. I realize I deserve no clemency.
When I never asked, you brought me alive and will eventually bring me dead.
So what thing can I ask?

A Letter for Mr. Ashton Kutcher and Mrs. Demi Kutcher (known as Demi Moore)

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With all my respect,

I totally don't know what’s been happening in your marriage. Well, it’s truly none of my business or not even someone’s business somewhere in Bora-Bora or Bau-Bau. The fact is, it’s well spreading through media about Mr. Kutcher has been playing around with some young women while being still married to Mrs. Kutcher. I am so sad and upset. I would even feel sadder and more upset if what the media said was ever true. I know (again) it’s not my business, but as you read before that it’s well-spread! Man, you two are gorgeous. Look at the differences you have, beside of course, different sex and gender. You two have this incredible gap in age. Mr. Kutcher is an Aquarius man and Mrs. Kutcher is a Scorpio woman. As an Aquarius man, Mr Kutcher likes to hanging out with friends, while Mrs. Kutcher, a Scorpio woman, enjoys more in deep private emotional connection. Mrs. Kutcher has different relationship background with Mr. Kutcher. He’d never married anyone before he married Mrs. Kutcher. Along with another kind differences, you two were still sure to finally keep the faith in a marriage. Isn’t that beautiful? Doesn’t it prove that impossible is nothing but a word? Look at what you have done together. The foundation you have to keep the bad things from slavery away. Look how positive you two in working together.

I will not say, in my position as the outsider and never marry anyone, any complaint or suggestion to your marital issue(s). But I’d like to aver as a person who does not believe in marriage, that if you two can keep the marriage by trying to heal both broken hearts (apologizing and forgiving), to make peace with the positive and negative side of one another, to balance out the things between you two and see them as one entity that needs to work together to keep it alive, and try to be thankful for the most beautiful and the most meaningful your life become when you two stay together happily, I’m sure your both decision of having married each other will eradicate the hesitancy of many couples out there who have been on the brink of desperation, to finally just go beyond the differences they have and stay focus more on things that keep them together this far.

I am never in any kind of dating relationship or moreover a marriage, but I believe, there are some couples who have been busy underlining the differences between them, instead of nurturing the things that keep them together. You know what, in the reality they fell apart because of their own nightmare.

Well, as I cited at the first time, I know nothing about your life. I just want to share my thoughts.

Sincerely,

Not Even Your Fan

There Are More Doors to Choose

When I reach the age of 25, I will be so proud of being single and having not socially or legally claimed as being owned by or owning someone. I just cannot perceive the idea. When we can have multiple relationships, why do we need to attach to single person only?

I don't think it's a social burden to have opposite-sex partner in life. When we're born alone and will inevitably die alone, then do we need to live legally with one special person like it is a necessity? I'm not saying I will deny a marriage, (although I don't think it's a decisive way out in faithfulness and trust issue) but truly, I'm not planning to have a marriage or two.
I often declare my celibacy and be proud of it in the name of independence and human rights whatsoever. That somehow doesn't mean I will not change my mind.

Again, I think marriage is just for sex legality and for the social matter. When you have some special emotion toward someone, do you think bring her/him in front of the law is the proof of your feeling?Some people find a wedding ring is some kind of beautiful sign of loyalty, devotion, or other. But funnily, I see it as the stamp or label you usually find on the back of cow and goat, to differ their ownership.

Can laws guarantee that one will stay truthful and faithful to the licit partner?
Can laws guarantee that one will be responsible to the licit family?
Can laws guarantee that boredom will never mingle to the marriage?
Can laws guarantee .... ?

It's one's right and choice to see whether marriage will be the future or not.
It is good to have one life-time sex buddy. It is wise also to tag yourself as "MARRIED" to prevent social issue. But one legal deed will lead to another legal responsibility, like legal children to feed, to nurture, and to educate, and also legal partner to keep the dream family up with.
As I wanted to note is, marriage is not the end of one's love story (except in most of fairy tales). Marriage is not also the only way to love or prove your love. Marriage is one of other ways in presenting the very special sincerity, devotion, and affection to one special person.

The crux is whatever it is, be truthful to yourself.