Two Types of Stereotypes

There are two types of people.
The ones who do the best and the others who prepare for the worst.
There are two types of people.
They who are trying to find why they live and they who are looking for how to live in this world.
There are two types of stupid women.
The one who takes in vain a good man and she who lets herself fooled away by a bad man.

It's Just The Same

It’s funny when there are some people who show things off to hide themselves, when the others don’t realize that they’re showing off their true selves.

It’s even funnier when finding out a friend of mine so overwhelmingly accepted my opinion about her positive appearance, but once very offensively denied my opinion that she perceived as negative. Beyond all that overwhelming and offensive response, they’re just my opinions and what so bothering about that?

I still see it as humorous behaviour of humanity that some people taking ‘compliments’ from others as “yes, it’s me. thank you for telling me that gorgeous side of me”, but when receiving non-complimentary remarks they act like “you know nothing about me. stop judging me!”.

For me who’s wandering beyond positive and negative terms, there’s no difference response I should pay between the compliment and the insult some people may note to me, but “Are you sure about it?thanks (for trying to get to know me)”. There’s no need to be happy when people say how dolly cute you are, because you know, even sometimes you doubt it in front of the mirror. In the other hand, there’s no need to feel upset too, when people say to you how foolish you are, because you know that at another times, you’ve avoided to do foolish deeds (like they do).

After that, what remains is opinion can never be as precise as everything you know about what you’ve been through in your whole life. Opinion is not a fact. Just like what’s seen is not necessarily like what is seen, but there’s always another thing behind what’s seen.

Speaking of what’s seen and what’s not seen, it’s natural for human being to choose what to be seen in which scene. We cannot act always like what we want with social and psychological consequences we’re born into. In another time, we have lost what we’re born with. We don’t know who we are. All we know is just what we’re supposed to be. Then please don't blame the nature of social creature. It comes with the reverse quality: Some people’s opinions can help us exactly to find what we have lost of ourselves. They can tell us things what we can’t see. Maybe the things we don't realize we’ve been showing them off or simply the things we forgot we ever did; the lost puzzle of our true selves.

People have curiosity. They gain the facts by giving a compliment or an insult just to know whether you know about it (what they see) or not, or simply because they want to know about it more by throwing their opinion to you and hoping for your complete story.

Well, all above those things, again, an opinion is not a quality to be assessed as right or wrong, yes or no. The truth about you, is always you who know and understand completely. No matter what opinion people have about you, the truth will never be the less or more.