If a Pig Can Live as a Pig, Why Can't We as Human?

It's undeniable if some opinions from others can sometimes make someone be pessimistic about one's self. Not only becoming pessimistic, but also affecting the next step by being reluctant to take action.
It is a common problem for human.
The morality, the culture, the norms, even the laws per se encourage individuals to think twice before do something. Id, Ego, Superego, that earlier have been cited by Freud in elaborating human behaviour, can be also the answer why those things can affect one's deed.
That is how psychology and sociology see the problem.
In criminology, also known as differential association that postulates if an action is truly emerged from interactions with others. There is a learning process.

But then, can society control the conformity and the order?
Should I act like you?
Should you act like me?
Or else, should we act the same?

If you do something, it's socially normal to have some feedback like compliment or insult, agreement or disagreement. Positive reaction or negative reaction.
But hey, you know what is the best for you. You have lived your own life, so let the decision comes from you. Any perception and opinion will only add harmony to your life. Let them be what they should be.
Everyone has right to give an opinion, but then, don't let anyone's opinion take effect on your side.
We cannot change how the world see us, but we can change how we see the world.
It is on your hand. Your life is always in your hand.

Word in Extinction

The new commodity in scarcity is Thank You(s). Perhaps people are starting to be "I save my ass first. Damn about the others".

It's a common knowledge about 3 magic words, "Thanks", "Sorry", and "Please".
The word "thanks" represents the need of other people existence and the need to justify one's existence. The mutuality in humanity. The philosophical proof that no one can live alone. It's perceptible that there is one who feels alive in helping other, and the other one who feels not being alone by receiving an aid.
Thanks. Grazie. Xie Xie. Gamsha Hamnida. Arigato. Ngiyabonga. Toda.
Every tribe, every country, they have the word to mention the gratitude.

I don't really want to overshare here, tho my writing was almost based on what is fazing me.
I have recently felt and thought that some people asked me my helps. I could help them. I'd like too. I have done it. When I couldn't help them fully, then I'd do it as great as I could. Then, yeah, cliche..
They just went away!
I understand about sincerity, but the word exists not to eradicate the word "appreciation".
Perhaps it's just my turn to be on this phase, like a mountain and the sea. Having given the useful things, just to receive the trashes in return. Is it how they should be treated? Is it how I should be treated?

I am not saying I have a greater mind than the others. It's just absurd to have shared about my ideas, then others claim them as theirs by not asking permission or just say thanks!
In academic scope, the popular term is plagiarism.

Is it my fault for not to be the first one who implemented, published, and add the signature what was mine?
Or
Is it MERELY a dirty action of the hunger for self-popularizing?
Or
Is it just me who can't understand how to be thankful for what people have left on me?

To Love, All We Need Is Solely a Heart

Is there any rule in loving each other?
Is there any human law can stop the feeling?
Who can feel, who can love
Loving is not a crime.