The importance of women virginity is nothing without the consistency in respecting women virginity per se.
For the society wherever you are, if you people are highly prevailing virginity in women as their pride, you should note that it means there will be no man who consummates the virginity illegally.
Can you convince that?
If you can’t , then, the thing you’re prevailing is clearly not for women’s pride nor for the sake of both sides, but merely for the pleasure and the stupidity of men talking about their malformed little friend.
You (especially for a man) blame and become disappointed of a woman you’re (admittedly) loving having lost her virginity. Well, are you the one who never makes a woman lose hers? Haven’t you had sex with a virgin donna?
If you have done such thing, then what’s the blame for? You don’t even respect the virginity. Confess that. There’s no proper freedom is deserved by someone who deprived freedom from another one, in any reason.
You’ve been treating women as the objects of your penis. Reducing the whole one into some pleasurable pieces. Just that.
If you never do such thing, then is the bleeding liquid coming out of her vagina is the most importance of your relationship?
Is that what makes you think you love her?
Is that what supports you to struggle for her?
Is it far much more important than what she’s done to you, to give in herself for you, to be bearing your child, to care for you, to understand you, to give her affection for you, to stay beside you whatever you’re going through, to share her independence with you, and to be the one who you come to when you're feeling down?
Is that red spotting you wish to see is the reason why you marry a woman?
When you devote to love her, love her fully as she is and do it as your-truly-self or never to love her at all. There's no half-love nor quarter love. It's zero meaning when you say you want to give someone a car but eventually you just give the trunk.
