Two Types of Stereotypes

There are two types of people.
The ones who do the best and the others who prepare for the worst.
There are two types of people.
They who are trying to find why they live and they who are looking for how to live in this world.
There are two types of stupid women.
The one who takes in vain a good man and she who lets herself fooled away by a bad man.

It's Just The Same

It’s funny when there are some people who show things off to hide themselves, when the others don’t realize that they’re showing off their true selves.

It’s even funnier when finding out a friend of mine so overwhelmingly accepted my opinion about her positive appearance, but once very offensively denied my opinion that she perceived as negative. Beyond all that overwhelming and offensive response, they’re just my opinions and what so bothering about that?

I still see it as humorous behaviour of humanity that some people taking ‘compliments’ from others as “yes, it’s me. thank you for telling me that gorgeous side of me”, but when receiving non-complimentary remarks they act like “you know nothing about me. stop judging me!”.

For me who’s wandering beyond positive and negative terms, there’s no difference response I should pay between the compliment and the insult some people may note to me, but “Are you sure about it?thanks (for trying to get to know me)”. There’s no need to be happy when people say how dolly cute you are, because you know, even sometimes you doubt it in front of the mirror. In the other hand, there’s no need to feel upset too, when people say to you how foolish you are, because you know that at another times, you’ve avoided to do foolish deeds (like they do).

After that, what remains is opinion can never be as precise as everything you know about what you’ve been through in your whole life. Opinion is not a fact. Just like what’s seen is not necessarily like what is seen, but there’s always another thing behind what’s seen.

Speaking of what’s seen and what’s not seen, it’s natural for human being to choose what to be seen in which scene. We cannot act always like what we want with social and psychological consequences we’re born into. In another time, we have lost what we’re born with. We don’t know who we are. All we know is just what we’re supposed to be. Then please don't blame the nature of social creature. It comes with the reverse quality: Some people’s opinions can help us exactly to find what we have lost of ourselves. They can tell us things what we can’t see. Maybe the things we don't realize we’ve been showing them off or simply the things we forgot we ever did; the lost puzzle of our true selves.

People have curiosity. They gain the facts by giving a compliment or an insult just to know whether you know about it (what they see) or not, or simply because they want to know about it more by throwing their opinion to you and hoping for your complete story.

Well, all above those things, again, an opinion is not a quality to be assessed as right or wrong, yes or no. The truth about you, is always you who know and understand completely. No matter what opinion people have about you, the truth will never be the less or more.

Sovereignty for Sexuality : The Re-declaration of Virginity

The importance of women virginity is nothing without the consistency in respecting women virginity per se.

For the society wherever you are, if you people are highly prevailing virginity in women as their pride, you should note that it means there will be no man who consummates the virginity illegally.

Can you convince that?

If you can’t , then, the thing you’re prevailing is clearly not for women’s pride nor for the sake of both sides, but merely for the pleasure and the stupidity of men talking about their malformed little friend.

You (especially for a man) blame and become disappointed of a woman you’re (admittedly) loving having lost her virginity. Well, are you the one who never makes a woman lose hers? Haven’t you had sex with a virgin donna?

If you have done such thing, then what’s the blame for? You don’t even respect the virginity. Confess that. There’s no proper freedom is deserved by someone who deprived freedom from another one, in any reason.

You’ve been treating women as the objects of your penis. Reducing the whole one into some pleasurable pieces. Just that.

If you never do such thing, then is the bleeding liquid coming out of her vagina is the most importance of your relationship?

Is that what makes you think you love her?

Is that what supports you to struggle for her?

Is it far much more important than what she’s done to you, to give in herself for you, to be bearing your child, to care for you, to understand you, to give her affection for you, to stay beside you whatever you’re going through, to share her independence with you, and to be the one who you come to when you're feeling down?

Is that red spotting you wish to see is the reason why you marry a woman?

When you devote to love her, love her fully as she is and do it as your-truly-self or never to love her at all. There's no half-love nor quarter love. It's zero meaning when you say you want to give someone a car but eventually you just give the trunk.

Place This in This Place

What we can't see is not meant to be seen. What we can't tell is not meant to be told. So never tell me what you can't even see. Nevertheless, we all can feel things. So teach and preach me how to feel what you feel.

Said Things Not

I used to try to follow the rules of you you you you people have told me to do.
I have conceded almost all by giving in my needs.Whatsofuckingelse do i need to do?
To be the same as you you you you people?
Talking bad behind other people?
Can't you you you you people make change by telling the truth in the right place?


WHERE IS THE HERO?
(you you you you people used to shout this to me)
Can't you you you you people face the truth that things can be misplaced then misconstrued?
How can we be as a unity to fight against what should be fought when we are busy fighting each other inside the same bubble?

TRUST AND HONESTY
It's unfair for me who have done this with great effort to back up the handicapped ones but end up not more than who only has paid with beautiful laugh (this one is hurting me so terribly)

I devoted myonlyoneself
I am in this level and not affraid to go back where I shouldn't have started from.

It's impossible to say these in the right place.
Because I'm just about the same as you you you you people.
Funny adequately?
Laugh it beautifully.OUT LOUD.

Are you you you you people asking things to me?
There's nothing left to say.
You don't want to hear me and i have my life to carry on.

Growing Up

Maturity is not measured by how old you are, but how you are getting older.

The Definiton of The Undefined

This is the time for imaginary day.

Every each person will always be crazily looking for the definition of LOVE.

Someone has found it while others are still looking for it.

There are plethora definitions out there.

Nothing can pay for the miraculous curiosity.

Why is it not so like as easy as: the reason why my face is red, that’s because there is blood flowing over my face.period.

Cliche, LOVE is so complex.

Hard to understand.

Difficult to get.

Covered and decoyed by obsession, lust, and hatred

Somehow, it is so nice that finding the LOVE definition is taking long time and sacrifice to fall, just to remain undefined but felt. So that people will not have time to hate.